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Super Shadows | When Strengths Limit Growth

Super Shadows | When Strengths Limit Growth

Update: 2025-03-26
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In this episode, I’m joined by my co-host Carly Malatskey, a former software engineer turned entrepreneur and host of She Leads. We tackle a listener’s career dilemma: feeling stuck and unsure how to adapt to shifting expectations. Using a structured approach, we break down when to make a change, how to advocate for yourself, and how to evolve without losing what makes you successful. Whether you’re navigating subtle shifts or considering a big move, this episode helps you own your superpower—and the shadow that comes with it.

Key topics

  • The unseen influence of Super Shadows
  • Why past success won’t fuel future growth
  • Breaking free from career stagnation
  • The power of self-advocacy
  • How top leaders seek feedback
  • Identifying what actually needs to change
  • Much more

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Timestamps

(00:00 ) How your superpower can stall career growth

(01:11 ) Show format

(02:45 ) Listener question: Navigating a quiet career crisis

(06:40 ) How to break free from feeling stuck at work

(11:35 ) The case for self-advocacy in your career

(16:36 ) Why past success won’t fuel future growth

(19:48 ) Super Shadows: What they are and why they matter

(30:46 ) When it’s time to confront your shadow

(37:53 ) The risks of ignoring your shadow

(40:56 ) How great leaders seek feedback

(47:07 ) Pinpointing what actually needs to change

(55:57 ) A strategy for sustainable career growth

(57:04 ) Why change has to happen on the job

(58:19 ) A real-world example from Nikhyl’s offsite

(61:28 ) Key takeaways and final thoughts



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Super Shadows | When Strengths Limit Growth

Super Shadows | When Strengths Limit Growth

Nikhyl Singhal